Happy Galentine's Day! This spinoff of Valentine's Day, celebrated on February 13, was invented in 2010 by comedienne Amy Poehler during an episode of her award-winning sitcom Parks and Rec. In Season Two, she hosted a "Galentine's Day" brunch, and the made-up tradition quickly became official. It seems that a real celebration honoring the many merits of female friendship was something that many of us were longing for, and it's no wonder: Friendship love has many health benefits!
Gal Pals Live Longer, Love Stronger
While friendships between any combination of gender identities are important to our health and well-being as social animals, research has shown that this is especially true of platonic female and female-identified friends. Biologically speaking, this may be because women release more of the "love hormone" oxytocin, which can counteract stress and promote relaxation and feelings of ease and belonging around others. When a woman feels close to another woman, oxytocin flows. Since stress is the leading cause of disease and shortened lifespan, it isn't a stretch to say that these friendships are great for our health.
But why women in particular? Don't men produce oxytocin as well? They do indeed--but in this case, nurture wins over nature--at least in our current culture. Women are traditionally raised to connect with others, to share, and, well to nurture. Unfortunately, most men are conditioned to do just the opposite: they are encouraged to be self-reliant, tough, and non-emotive. As we learn and evolve and as gender fluidity becomes more the norm, however, this model is slowly dissolving, and men can also reap the health benefits of close friendships.
We can also get support from the foods we eat to boost our oxytocin levels and maximize these friendships. As it turns out, citrus is the key!
Citrus Boosts Oxytocin Levels
The key nutrients needed for maximum oxytocin levels in our body are Vitamin C, Vitamin D, magnesium, and healthy fats such as olive oil, salmon, avocados, eggs, cheese, and chia seeds. Of these four, citrus fruits are loaded with Vitamin C--they contain one of the most bioavailable forms of Vitamin C in all of nature--and they also have a respectable amount of magnesium. While they aren't that high in Vitamin D, it turns out that Vitamin C significantly increases the uptake of Vitamin D from other foods. Citrus also enhances your overall mood due to its uplifting fragrance and effect on increasing serotonin levels, which is also good for your health. Citrus is high in fiber, which makes you more regular and thus less irritable--all beneficial for fostering real friendships. Add to that the immune-boosting properties of these superfruits and you are sure to be in peak health to go out there and make genuine connections with present and future friends.
Not sure which citrus fruits to pick? Go for a sampler like a Grove Basket, pictured above.
Galentine's Brunch
Putting all of this information together, it makes sense that a great way to celebrate Galentine's Day is by enjoying a brunch that features oxytocin-rich foods. Imagine a mouthwatering spread replete with cheese and avocado omelets and citrus parfaits. You can make an easy grapefruit parfait, pictured below, using ruby red grapefruit, vanilla yogurt, and a drizzle of honey or a dash of chia seeds on top, if desired. Substitute oranges, mandarins, or create a trio of these three for some variety. You can also make citrus-infused water with filtered water, orange slices, and mint sprigs for a delicious and artistic way to hydrate while spending precious time with your beloved besties!
Sources:
Why Galentine's Day is an important celebration of female friendship
The Importance Of Female Friendships | The Well by Northwell
Oxytocin: The love hormone - Harvard Health
Oxytocin in Males: How the Love Hormone Works in Men | Good Health by Hims